We can say this is a million dollar question, or highly philosophical question - "What is the most IMP thing in life?".
People will say its different for different people, its a combination of different things or happenings. Its all relative! so on n so forth! But my take on this is different! I do think its different. I think its same & the only thing most IMP thing is "LOVE"! The feeling of being in "LOVE" or being "Happy". Please do not misunderstand this as a teenage blog!
When I go to buy fruits, the vendor is happy when his fruits are all sold... He thinks selling all the fruits is the most IMP thing, but ground zero basic is, the feeling that he gets... I am a recruiter by profession, and when I achieve a given target, I feel happy, n all month all I strive to "achive" the target! But the bliss is what we look for, and teh target is an agent which gives us that bliss.
Now if we hold the above explanation true, why dnt we consider the” feeling" factor in today’s world? If you ask a practical person, he will answer, the most IMP thing in life is money, respect, self dependency. If a child asks his parents, they will say for you its the marks.... & if the child fails to achieve, he has lost on the most IMP thing??? Everyday everyone of us, have so many millions of such small incidents which make a complete day, yet non of us even considers the very "heart of matters", Literally! why??? I dunno... Its for you guys to tell me?
For me the most Imp thing in life is the feeling of being in "LOVE" with "happiness"!! :)
Friday, August 29, 2008
Saturday, August 16, 2008
Save the spark dude!!
Chetan Bhagat's speech for BBA program Students in Symbosis! Its simple & kool! :)
THOUGHT I should should share this with you
Thank you for giving me this chance to speak to you. This day is about you. You, who have come to this college, leaving the comfort of your homes (or in some cases discomfort), to become something in your life. I am sure you are excited. There are few days in human life when one is truly elated.
The first day in college is one of them. When you were getting ready today, you felt a tingling in your stomach. What would the auditorium be like, what would the teachers be like, who are my new classmates - there is so much to be curious about. I call this excitement, the spark within you that makes you feel truly alive today. Today I am going to talk about keeping the spark shining. Or to put it another way, how to be happy most, if not all the time.Where do these sparks start? I think we are born with them. My 3-year old twin boys have a million sparks. A little Spiderman toy can make them jump on the bed. They get thrills from creaky swings in the park. A story from daddy gets them excited. They do a daily countdown for birthday party - several months in advance - just for the day they will cut their own birthday cake.I see students like you, and I still see some sparks. But when I see older people, the spark is difficult to find. That means as we age, the spark fades. People whose spark has faded too much are dull, dejected, aimless and bitter. Remember Kareena in the first half of Jab We Met vs the second half? That is what happens when the spark is lost. So how to save the spark?Imagine the spark to be a lamp's flame. The first aspect is nurturing - to give your spark the fuel, continuously. The second is to guard against storms.To nurture, always have goals. It is human nature to strive, improve and achieve full potential. In fact, that is success. It is what is possible for you. It isn't any external measure - a certain cost to company pay package, a particular car or house.Most of us are from middle class families. To us, having material landmarks is success and rightly so. When you have grown up where money constraints force everyday choices, financial freedom is a big achievement. But it isn't the purpose of life.
If that was the case, Mr. Ambani would not show up for work. Shah Rukh Khan would stay at home and not dance anymore. Steve Jobs won't be working hard to make a better iPhone, as he sold Pixar for billions of dollars already. Why do they do it? What makes them come to work everyday? They do it because it makes them happy. They do it because it makes them feel alive. Just getting better from current levels feels good. If you study hard, you can improve your rank. If you make an effort to interact with people, you will do better in interviews. If you practice, your cricket will get better. You may also know that you cannot become Tendulkar, yet. But you can get to the next level. Striving for that next level is important.Nature designed with a random set of genes and circumstances in which we were born. To be happy, we have to accept it and make the most of nature's design. Are you? Goals will help you do that. I must add, don't just have career or academic goals. Set goals to give you a balanced, successful life. I use the word balanced before successful. Balanced means ensuring your health, relationships, mental peace are all in good order.There is no point of getting a promotion on the day of your breakup. There is no fun in driving a car if your back hurts. Shopping is not enjoyable if your mind is full of tensions.You must have read some quotes - Life is a tough race, it is a marathon or whatever. No, from what I have seen so far, life is one of those races in nursery school, where you have to run with a marble in a spoon kept in your mouth. If the marble falls, there is no point coming first. Same with life, where health and relationships are the marble. Your striving is only worth it if there is harmony in your life. Else, you may achieve the success, but this spark, this feeling of being excited and alive, will start to die.One last thing about nurturing the spark - don't take life seriously. One of my yoga teachers used to make students laugh during classes. One student asked him if these jokes would take away something from the yoga practice. The teacher said - don't be serious, be sincere. This quote has defined my work ever since. Whether its my writing, my job, my relationships or any of my goals. I get thousands of opinions on my writing everyday. There is heaps of praise, there is intense criticism. If I take it all seriously, how will I write? Or rather, how will I live?
Life is not to be taken seriously, as we are really temporary here. We are like a pre-paid card with limited validity. If we are lucky, we may last another 50 years. And 50 years is just 2,500 weekends. Do we really need to get so worked up? It's ok, bunk a few classes, goof up a few interviews, fall in love. We are people, not programmed devices.I've told you three things - reasonable goals, balance and not taking it too seriously that will nurture the spark. However, there are four storms in life that will threaten to completely put out the flame. These must be guarded against. These are disappointment, frustration, unfairness and loneliness of purpose.Disappointment will come when your effort does not give you the expected return. If things don't go as planned or if you face failure.
Failure is extremely difficult to handle, but those that do come out stronger. What did this failure teach me? Is the question you will need to ask. You will feel miserable. You will want to quit, like I wanted to when nine publishers rejected my first book. Some IITians kill themselves over low grades - how silly is that? But that is how much failure can hurt you. But it's life. If challenges could always be overcome, they would cease to be a challenge. And remember - if you are failing at something, that means you are at your limit or potential. And that's where you want to be.Disappointment' s cousin is frustration, the second storm. Have you ever been frustrated? It happens when things are stuck. This is especially relevant in India. From traffic jams to getting that job you deserve, sometimes things take so long that you don't know if you chose the right goal. After books, I set the goal of writing for Bollywood, as I thought they needed writers. I am called extremely lucky, but it took me five years to get close to a release.
Frustration saps excitement, and turns your initial energy into something negative, making you a bitter person. How did I deal with it? A realistic assessment of the time involved - movies take a long time to make even though they are watched quickly, seeking a certain enjoyment in the process rather than the end result - at least I was learning how to write scripts, having a side plan - I had my third book to write and even something as simple as pleasurable distractions in your life - friends, food, travel can help you overcome it. Remember, nothing is to be taken seriously. Frustration is a sign somewhere, you took it too seriously.Unfairness - this is hardest to deal with, but unfortunately that is how our country works. People with connections, rich dads, beautiful faces, pedigree find it easier to make it - not just in Bollywood, but everywhere. And sometimes it is just plain luck. There are so few opportunities in India, so many stars need to be aligned for you to make it happen. Merit and hard work is not always linked to achievement in the short term, but the long term correlation is high, and ultimately things do work out. But realize, there will be some people luckier than you. In fact, to have an opportunity to go to college and understand this speech in English means you are pretty damm lucky by Indian standards.
Let's be grateful for what we have and get the strength to accept what we don't. I have so much love from my readers that other writers cannot even imagine it. However, I don't get literary praise. It's ok. I don't look like Aishwarya Rai, but I have two boys who I think are more beautiful than her. It's ok. Don't let unfairness kill your spark.Finally, the last point that can kill your spark is isolation. As you grow older you will realize you are unique. When you are little, all kids want Ice cream and Spiderman. As you grow older to college, you still are a lot like your friends. But ten years later and you realize you are unique. What you want, what you believe in, what makes you feel, may be different from even the people closest to you. This can create conflict as your goals may not match with others. . And you may drop some of them. Basketball captains in college invariably stop playing basketball by the time they have their second child. They give up something that meant so much to them. They do it for their family. But in doing that, the spark dies. Never, ever make that compromise. Love yourself first, and then others.There you go. I've told you the four thunderstorms - disappointment, frustration, unfairness and isolation. You cannot avoid them, as like the monsoon they will come into your life at regular intervals. You just need to keep the raincoat handy to not let the spark die.I welcome you again to the most wonderful years of your life. If someone gave me the choice to go back in time, I will surely choose college. But I also hope that ten years later as well, your eyes will shine the same way as they do today. That you will Keep the Spark alive, not only through college, but through the next 2,500 weekends.
And I hope not just you, but my whole country will keep that spark alive, as we really need it now more than any moment in history. And there is something cool about saying - I come from the land of a billion sparks.Thank You.Chetan Bhagat.
THOUGHT I should should share this with you
Thank you for giving me this chance to speak to you. This day is about you. You, who have come to this college, leaving the comfort of your homes (or in some cases discomfort), to become something in your life. I am sure you are excited. There are few days in human life when one is truly elated.
The first day in college is one of them. When you were getting ready today, you felt a tingling in your stomach. What would the auditorium be like, what would the teachers be like, who are my new classmates - there is so much to be curious about. I call this excitement, the spark within you that makes you feel truly alive today. Today I am going to talk about keeping the spark shining. Or to put it another way, how to be happy most, if not all the time.Where do these sparks start? I think we are born with them. My 3-year old twin boys have a million sparks. A little Spiderman toy can make them jump on the bed. They get thrills from creaky swings in the park. A story from daddy gets them excited. They do a daily countdown for birthday party - several months in advance - just for the day they will cut their own birthday cake.I see students like you, and I still see some sparks. But when I see older people, the spark is difficult to find. That means as we age, the spark fades. People whose spark has faded too much are dull, dejected, aimless and bitter. Remember Kareena in the first half of Jab We Met vs the second half? That is what happens when the spark is lost. So how to save the spark?Imagine the spark to be a lamp's flame. The first aspect is nurturing - to give your spark the fuel, continuously. The second is to guard against storms.To nurture, always have goals. It is human nature to strive, improve and achieve full potential. In fact, that is success. It is what is possible for you. It isn't any external measure - a certain cost to company pay package, a particular car or house.Most of us are from middle class families. To us, having material landmarks is success and rightly so. When you have grown up where money constraints force everyday choices, financial freedom is a big achievement. But it isn't the purpose of life.
If that was the case, Mr. Ambani would not show up for work. Shah Rukh Khan would stay at home and not dance anymore. Steve Jobs won't be working hard to make a better iPhone, as he sold Pixar for billions of dollars already. Why do they do it? What makes them come to work everyday? They do it because it makes them happy. They do it because it makes them feel alive. Just getting better from current levels feels good. If you study hard, you can improve your rank. If you make an effort to interact with people, you will do better in interviews. If you practice, your cricket will get better. You may also know that you cannot become Tendulkar, yet. But you can get to the next level. Striving for that next level is important.Nature designed with a random set of genes and circumstances in which we were born. To be happy, we have to accept it and make the most of nature's design. Are you? Goals will help you do that. I must add, don't just have career or academic goals. Set goals to give you a balanced, successful life. I use the word balanced before successful. Balanced means ensuring your health, relationships, mental peace are all in good order.There is no point of getting a promotion on the day of your breakup. There is no fun in driving a car if your back hurts. Shopping is not enjoyable if your mind is full of tensions.You must have read some quotes - Life is a tough race, it is a marathon or whatever. No, from what I have seen so far, life is one of those races in nursery school, where you have to run with a marble in a spoon kept in your mouth. If the marble falls, there is no point coming first. Same with life, where health and relationships are the marble. Your striving is only worth it if there is harmony in your life. Else, you may achieve the success, but this spark, this feeling of being excited and alive, will start to die.One last thing about nurturing the spark - don't take life seriously. One of my yoga teachers used to make students laugh during classes. One student asked him if these jokes would take away something from the yoga practice. The teacher said - don't be serious, be sincere. This quote has defined my work ever since. Whether its my writing, my job, my relationships or any of my goals. I get thousands of opinions on my writing everyday. There is heaps of praise, there is intense criticism. If I take it all seriously, how will I write? Or rather, how will I live?
Life is not to be taken seriously, as we are really temporary here. We are like a pre-paid card with limited validity. If we are lucky, we may last another 50 years. And 50 years is just 2,500 weekends. Do we really need to get so worked up? It's ok, bunk a few classes, goof up a few interviews, fall in love. We are people, not programmed devices.I've told you three things - reasonable goals, balance and not taking it too seriously that will nurture the spark. However, there are four storms in life that will threaten to completely put out the flame. These must be guarded against. These are disappointment, frustration, unfairness and loneliness of purpose.Disappointment will come when your effort does not give you the expected return. If things don't go as planned or if you face failure.
Failure is extremely difficult to handle, but those that do come out stronger. What did this failure teach me? Is the question you will need to ask. You will feel miserable. You will want to quit, like I wanted to when nine publishers rejected my first book. Some IITians kill themselves over low grades - how silly is that? But that is how much failure can hurt you. But it's life. If challenges could always be overcome, they would cease to be a challenge. And remember - if you are failing at something, that means you are at your limit or potential. And that's where you want to be.Disappointment' s cousin is frustration, the second storm. Have you ever been frustrated? It happens when things are stuck. This is especially relevant in India. From traffic jams to getting that job you deserve, sometimes things take so long that you don't know if you chose the right goal. After books, I set the goal of writing for Bollywood, as I thought they needed writers. I am called extremely lucky, but it took me five years to get close to a release.
Frustration saps excitement, and turns your initial energy into something negative, making you a bitter person. How did I deal with it? A realistic assessment of the time involved - movies take a long time to make even though they are watched quickly, seeking a certain enjoyment in the process rather than the end result - at least I was learning how to write scripts, having a side plan - I had my third book to write and even something as simple as pleasurable distractions in your life - friends, food, travel can help you overcome it. Remember, nothing is to be taken seriously. Frustration is a sign somewhere, you took it too seriously.Unfairness - this is hardest to deal with, but unfortunately that is how our country works. People with connections, rich dads, beautiful faces, pedigree find it easier to make it - not just in Bollywood, but everywhere. And sometimes it is just plain luck. There are so few opportunities in India, so many stars need to be aligned for you to make it happen. Merit and hard work is not always linked to achievement in the short term, but the long term correlation is high, and ultimately things do work out. But realize, there will be some people luckier than you. In fact, to have an opportunity to go to college and understand this speech in English means you are pretty damm lucky by Indian standards.
Let's be grateful for what we have and get the strength to accept what we don't. I have so much love from my readers that other writers cannot even imagine it. However, I don't get literary praise. It's ok. I don't look like Aishwarya Rai, but I have two boys who I think are more beautiful than her. It's ok. Don't let unfairness kill your spark.Finally, the last point that can kill your spark is isolation. As you grow older you will realize you are unique. When you are little, all kids want Ice cream and Spiderman. As you grow older to college, you still are a lot like your friends. But ten years later and you realize you are unique. What you want, what you believe in, what makes you feel, may be different from even the people closest to you. This can create conflict as your goals may not match with others. . And you may drop some of them. Basketball captains in college invariably stop playing basketball by the time they have their second child. They give up something that meant so much to them. They do it for their family. But in doing that, the spark dies. Never, ever make that compromise. Love yourself first, and then others.There you go. I've told you the four thunderstorms - disappointment, frustration, unfairness and isolation. You cannot avoid them, as like the monsoon they will come into your life at regular intervals. You just need to keep the raincoat handy to not let the spark die.I welcome you again to the most wonderful years of your life. If someone gave me the choice to go back in time, I will surely choose college. But I also hope that ten years later as well, your eyes will shine the same way as they do today. That you will Keep the Spark alive, not only through college, but through the next 2,500 weekends.
And I hope not just you, but my whole country will keep that spark alive, as we really need it now more than any moment in history. And there is something cool about saying - I come from the land of a billion sparks.Thank You.Chetan Bhagat.
When the inside aches
Life is said to be full of surprises & shocks!! Yet if you look properly we see it’s actually a patter of the similar activities over n over again. It’s like the 3 seasons of the year. Summer - Harsh and humid, Rainy - gray and moist & winter - cold and numb!
I guess it’s the way of looking @ things. All these days I loved rainy season specially cause it brought a lotta happiness in my heart! I loved watching the rains for hours together, let alone the fun of getting wet or having roasted corn!! But this rainy season has being so callous to me! Everyday the rain has come and I have not being able to enjoy any of it! If I stood for a while & looked @ the drops being dropped I was treated as "insane" and looked upon is such a way that its so wrong to look at falling water!! Now I do not know, it’s the way people look, or was I crazy to find happiness in simple things in life. The rain, a simple walk, panipuri by the corner of the street, etc. made me happy all these time, but now people tell me its not sane! The inside of me aches to hear things so rude n harsh it changes the very foundation of my cheerfulness! You shouldn’t be happy with small things, nor should little things worry you! Life is becoming a boring subject taught by a strict professor for endless hours!!
I know many of you good people out there will advice me not to pay heat to such annotations and look at life the way I have being looking and not let other things influence the establishment in me! But consider you being in my place and you shouting on the top of your voice trying to make yourself clear & you r telling it to some1 who you trust and who has asked you 2 share, but you repeat the same things, n he puts it down saying, you are "conspiring" against his happiness, wishes, hopes, life!! How do you guys deal with such situations! You walk out or you stay and clarify or be patient? Which is the brave thing to do? Walk away from some1 who trusted your life with, or stay and c your values being shattered by the same person!! I realize now, its so easy to advice people, but when it comes to implementing things you have said to every broken hearted friend is actually not that easy to do! n in my case, I cnt speak my heart out!! So its wee bit more difficult! It really aches inside!!
I guess it’s the way of looking @ things. All these days I loved rainy season specially cause it brought a lotta happiness in my heart! I loved watching the rains for hours together, let alone the fun of getting wet or having roasted corn!! But this rainy season has being so callous to me! Everyday the rain has come and I have not being able to enjoy any of it! If I stood for a while & looked @ the drops being dropped I was treated as "insane" and looked upon is such a way that its so wrong to look at falling water!! Now I do not know, it’s the way people look, or was I crazy to find happiness in simple things in life. The rain, a simple walk, panipuri by the corner of the street, etc. made me happy all these time, but now people tell me its not sane! The inside of me aches to hear things so rude n harsh it changes the very foundation of my cheerfulness! You shouldn’t be happy with small things, nor should little things worry you! Life is becoming a boring subject taught by a strict professor for endless hours!!
I know many of you good people out there will advice me not to pay heat to such annotations and look at life the way I have being looking and not let other things influence the establishment in me! But consider you being in my place and you shouting on the top of your voice trying to make yourself clear & you r telling it to some1 who you trust and who has asked you 2 share, but you repeat the same things, n he puts it down saying, you are "conspiring" against his happiness, wishes, hopes, life!! How do you guys deal with such situations! You walk out or you stay and clarify or be patient? Which is the brave thing to do? Walk away from some1 who trusted your life with, or stay and c your values being shattered by the same person!! I realize now, its so easy to advice people, but when it comes to implementing things you have said to every broken hearted friend is actually not that easy to do! n in my case, I cnt speak my heart out!! So its wee bit more difficult! It really aches inside!!
Monday, July 28, 2008
Rain Rain came again!!!
Its 28th July 2008, I am sitting in my Airoli office, and really bored! The weather outside is wonderful and romantic!! Its being raining in Mumbai for last 2 days now, and 2day its worst, & so, other branches left by 4:30pm! People are all waiting here for the time to turn to 6:45pm, so that every1 gets to go home! Rain has become a part n parcel of Mumbaites. But over the years what has being more palpable is the water logging!!!
If I recall, during the time when I used 2 go 2 school, every monsoon we used to just have 1 day when school would shut down during after like 3-4 lectures and all of us used to get all blissful & walk back home in rain and waist deep water logged!! But now a days, its like become 1 se in every month of all 4 months of monsoon! It’s sad to see, even when we say the country is moving ahead towards becoming an super power, something as necessary as drainage system is going from bad to worst! I still think of a good rainy day as a beautiful, quixotic day, but the fact is, there r millions on the streets of the city who will very easily loose their homes, worst are those who don’t have a house and die of cold and the water - born diseases! It’s really shame thinking about the current state of affairs of this country where 24 blasts happen within span of 48 hrs, and the citie’s financial capital has no choice but to shut down, due to rains.
If I recall, during the time when I used 2 go 2 school, every monsoon we used to just have 1 day when school would shut down during after like 3-4 lectures and all of us used to get all blissful & walk back home in rain and waist deep water logged!! But now a days, its like become 1 se in every month of all 4 months of monsoon! It’s sad to see, even when we say the country is moving ahead towards becoming an super power, something as necessary as drainage system is going from bad to worst! I still think of a good rainy day as a beautiful, quixotic day, but the fact is, there r millions on the streets of the city who will very easily loose their homes, worst are those who don’t have a house and die of cold and the water - born diseases! It’s really shame thinking about the current state of affairs of this country where 24 blasts happen within span of 48 hrs, and the citie’s financial capital has no choice but to shut down, due to rains.
Tuesday, July 15, 2008
My Silence
My Silence speaks
Though it doesn’t have words
My Silence is a conversation
Though it doesn’t sound
My Silence is profound
Though it mean superficial to others
My Silence is an expression
Though it cannot be heard
My Silence is my inner light.
Light that bridges the bay between my life's success
and my life's failures
My Silence is a presence
Presence of great nothingness
My Silence is a mystery
that will forever go unsolved
With my silence I hid the truth, expressing fear
Fear of hurting those who might not accept what I feel…
With my silence I hid my feelings, registering no care
Care for those who real mean to me….
With my silence I hid my thoughts, refusing to share
Share with those who can never understand me…
I hope of finding someone someday
who can understand the right meaning of my mind’s say
Though it doesn’t have words
My Silence is a conversation
Though it doesn’t sound
My Silence is profound
Though it mean superficial to others
My Silence is an expression
Though it cannot be heard
My Silence is my inner light.
Light that bridges the bay between my life's success
and my life's failures
My Silence is a presence
Presence of great nothingness
My Silence is a mystery
that will forever go unsolved
With my silence I hid the truth, expressing fear
Fear of hurting those who might not accept what I feel…
With my silence I hid my feelings, registering no care
Care for those who real mean to me….
With my silence I hid my thoughts, refusing to share
Share with those who can never understand me…
I hope of finding someone someday
who can understand the right meaning of my mind’s say
Saturday, July 5, 2008
My 22nd Birthday
Last weekend was my 22nd Birthday, n since then I hvnt got time to blog this memeorable birthay!! So here it goes....
Put in my sister's words, she had planned a 48 hrs, birthday for me, from saturday morning to sunday evening! Saturday morning marked the sart of the "48hrs" birthday party! bro planned a 1 day trip to Lonavala(hilstn quite near 2 Mumbai)... June end marks the beginning of Monsoon in Mumbai, so the way up2 lonavala, was a bliss by itself! Luss green mountains on both sides of the road & beautiful & breath taking water falls! It kept raining on n off....& it was a total refreshment from the noice & crowd back in the city! The whole day was a special "close enchanment" with nature, including bath on a fresh waterfall to looking at the whole Sayadri Ranges from a clif point called "lion's point" it was really in a true sense mesmerizing!!...All in all 28th June 2008, could be comfortablly marked as I of my good days, in this year yet....
Eve of my birthday, wasnt so gr8, cause I was sleepy & slept before 12!! I know I know, you must be thinking I am the most boring person available on planet earth!!! Well morning marked the beginning of the gifts & love showering!! Mom n dad gave their presents, so did my sis!! She also took the pain of ordering my fav chocolate cake from birdies & I cut the 1st cake for my birthday.... :) Later Bro again planned out a surpise outside.... After being with them for like till 6, I went 2 meet my pal Nikhil...He asked me for a quite diner with him, which was need of the hr considering I was getting quite tired by now!!
But then again was another very wonderful surprise party, which he had taken all da pains 2 organise, calling my friends he hadnt ever meet before & office frnds from other corner of the city took all the pain 2 come to my brithday party!! I was really touched by this jesture as it was personal & made me feel really nice.... Now this party marked the 2nd birthday cake!! The party was bacially a chill @ an hang out place with hooka n stuff... This got over @ about 10, and with a sure hope that dis is all stored for my birthday this year, I came back home.. Here my mom's best frnd surprises me with yet another cake n gifts!! I cut the 3rd cake @ 11 in the nite! Sure was an 48 hrs jam packed weekend birthday....
With all of this, mom like every year had cooked awesome lunch & diner for me!! n in the long list of gifts that I got includes, perfumes, chocolates, umbrellas(I was dieing for 1, n I got 2), clothes, jewellery, watch, bag, u name it n I got it!! n most importantly I realized how IMP I am to so many people on this earth.... :) I realized my importance in people's life & hope 2 always keep up every1z expectations.... Thanks 2 each n every1 who contributed for my lovely birthday....
Put in my sister's words, she had planned a 48 hrs, birthday for me, from saturday morning to sunday evening! Saturday morning marked the sart of the "48hrs" birthday party! bro planned a 1 day trip to Lonavala(hilstn quite near 2 Mumbai)... June end marks the beginning of Monsoon in Mumbai, so the way up2 lonavala, was a bliss by itself! Luss green mountains on both sides of the road & beautiful & breath taking water falls! It kept raining on n off....& it was a total refreshment from the noice & crowd back in the city! The whole day was a special "close enchanment" with nature, including bath on a fresh waterfall to looking at the whole Sayadri Ranges from a clif point called "lion's point" it was really in a true sense mesmerizing!!...All in all 28th June 2008, could be comfortablly marked as I of my good days, in this year yet....
Eve of my birthday, wasnt so gr8, cause I was sleepy & slept before 12!! I know I know, you must be thinking I am the most boring person available on planet earth!!! Well morning marked the beginning of the gifts & love showering!! Mom n dad gave their presents, so did my sis!! She also took the pain of ordering my fav chocolate cake from birdies & I cut the 1st cake for my birthday.... :) Later Bro again planned out a surpise outside.... After being with them for like till 6, I went 2 meet my pal Nikhil...He asked me for a quite diner with him, which was need of the hr considering I was getting quite tired by now!!
But then again was another very wonderful surprise party, which he had taken all da pains 2 organise, calling my friends he hadnt ever meet before & office frnds from other corner of the city took all the pain 2 come to my brithday party!! I was really touched by this jesture as it was personal & made me feel really nice.... Now this party marked the 2nd birthday cake!! The party was bacially a chill @ an hang out place with hooka n stuff... This got over @ about 10, and with a sure hope that dis is all stored for my birthday this year, I came back home.. Here my mom's best frnd surprises me with yet another cake n gifts!! I cut the 3rd cake @ 11 in the nite! Sure was an 48 hrs jam packed weekend birthday....
With all of this, mom like every year had cooked awesome lunch & diner for me!! n in the long list of gifts that I got includes, perfumes, chocolates, umbrellas(I was dieing for 1, n I got 2), clothes, jewellery, watch, bag, u name it n I got it!! n most importantly I realized how IMP I am to so many people on this earth.... :) I realized my importance in people's life & hope 2 always keep up every1z expectations.... Thanks 2 each n every1 who contributed for my lovely birthday....
Monday, June 16, 2008
The Week that was..
This is 1 of those random posts just about nothing! to tell you the truth, I practically do not remember how was last monday or tuesday!! I know wednesday was MetLife call, which as usual was boring went on n on over the same issues! The whole point of having a meeting/call/discussion is so fake!! I mean every week for the last 6 months the call has being over same issues!! Anyways, thatz always the highlight of "wednesdays!". Thrusday, well I guess I had my 4th joinee of the month, I think its also lame cause I used have such nice nos. before!!! yes thrusday marked the commencement of my worst weekend!! It dragged till like Sunday night & continued monday morning i.e today!!!
Well I guess its somewhere my fault or all of it!! I do not know!! to tell you frankly, I am not expecting to much of this week as well!! I mean its said the way people look @ things!! N yes, I am very very - ve,
SO hears cheers to another loosy week(end)!!!
Well I guess its somewhere my fault or all of it!! I do not know!! to tell you frankly, I am not expecting to much of this week as well!! I mean its said the way people look @ things!! N yes, I am very very - ve,
SO hears cheers to another loosy week(end)!!!
Monday, May 26, 2008
When Winter stays forever
This is not a very happy Blog! This is 1 of those days (months), when you start to feel this cold winter and the numbness will never end!! You want all sorts of un-realistic things, like turning back time, getting something stupid and feel that is the only that can make you happy!!! The sad songs hit your ears and you are alone in a room, in your office cubical or in a crowded bus/train/road! The fact that you are alone remains fresh into your herat, head and mind. Life seems to be on a long hault, everyday you wake up & the emptiness hits you...gets to you!!
Its not that we do not have a way out, its just that we are paralized not to take the way out!! I know people say, life has its ups and downs, & everytime its(life) at its all time low I tell myself, it cannot get worst! & sun has to shine now, the tunnel has to end and light will be seen any moment from now!! But now I long for the sun & the light, which never seem to be coming! Now I have reached a phase that, good things are just a pass by and the bad things are here to stay!! I know I am being - ve to the core and this will seem stupid, when I read my own words at a later date! But do you guys think I will forget the pain this day or this time of my life gives me??? I know out of the 60-65 yrs (may be) that I will live, this few months will seem like an lil drop in the vast ocean of life, but isnt it not true, that every drop 2gether makes it an ocean!!
I know for sure life is not as bad as it looks!! I know this is in my head & I know I am being over sensitive. People say its always right to listen 2 the head and do what is the "obvious" right!(logical, a=b=c). The heart is somehow always saying the opposite! These days my heart has kinda stopped talking to me atall!! I ask for solution, as I know its only the heart who will make me do the right things!! I wait for it to stop being mad @ me n speak again!!!
I know I will be out of this, and will be happy again....I know I am here cause God wants me 2 learn a lesson in this, there has to something good to this, and I am yet searching for the right answer, the right lesson.....Till then I just hope for the WINTER to get over and Sun to shine again!!! Miss those who always were with me!!
Its not that we do not have a way out, its just that we are paralized not to take the way out!! I know people say, life has its ups and downs, & everytime its(life) at its all time low I tell myself, it cannot get worst! & sun has to shine now, the tunnel has to end and light will be seen any moment from now!! But now I long for the sun & the light, which never seem to be coming! Now I have reached a phase that, good things are just a pass by and the bad things are here to stay!! I know I am being - ve to the core and this will seem stupid, when I read my own words at a later date! But do you guys think I will forget the pain this day or this time of my life gives me??? I know out of the 60-65 yrs (may be) that I will live, this few months will seem like an lil drop in the vast ocean of life, but isnt it not true, that every drop 2gether makes it an ocean!!
I know for sure life is not as bad as it looks!! I know this is in my head & I know I am being over sensitive. People say its always right to listen 2 the head and do what is the "obvious" right!(logical, a=b=c). The heart is somehow always saying the opposite! These days my heart has kinda stopped talking to me atall!! I ask for solution, as I know its only the heart who will make me do the right things!! I wait for it to stop being mad @ me n speak again!!!
I know I will be out of this, and will be happy again....I know I am here cause God wants me 2 learn a lesson in this, there has to something good to this, and I am yet searching for the right answer, the right lesson.....Till then I just hope for the WINTER to get over and Sun to shine again!!! Miss those who always were with me!!
Sunday, May 18, 2008
The Summer that died
I could breathe you in
as if air was tight with beauty.
I could wash your tender,
sweet tasting skin,
but only in a dreamin which you would walk toward me.
I hear past conversations
in which we grasped and wrestledwith each other's words.
I listen to friends when they talk of her,
but ignore them when it should be heard.
She reminds me of a shadow,
cowering on behind the moonlight.
I remembered when you walked,
the wind stripped your shadow,
the trees bonded with the breezeand my heart lay naked to your spirit,
and as those days ended,
it became the Summer that died
as if air was tight with beauty.
I could wash your tender,
sweet tasting skin,
but only in a dreamin which you would walk toward me.
I hear past conversations
in which we grasped and wrestledwith each other's words.
I listen to friends when they talk of her,
but ignore them when it should be heard.
She reminds me of a shadow,
cowering on behind the moonlight.
I remembered when you walked,
the wind stripped your shadow,
the trees bonded with the breezeand my heart lay naked to your spirit,
and as those days ended,
it became the Summer that died
An Evening on the streets of Colaba..
Saturday 17th May 2008 was a remarkable day for my sis MSA! Reason - 1st so called "outing" in the whole of 2 months vaccation she is being "enjoying"!!! So we headed to do what girls are best known to have done, apart from crying & bitching (thankfully, we arnt best in any of them) SHOPPING!!!
Its like such a stress buster this "Shopping" thingy!!! Seriously!! We left home at about 4, and reached the place @ 6, after traveling like more than 30 kms, to this not so small street called "Colaba" rite behind Gate Way of India, Mumbai! So it all started with searching clothes for her and ended with buying loads of junk jewllery! The "search for the best" attitude makes it all the more exciting! & yea for 1se you can decide what u think is the rite price!!!
But more than all this, the whole street is full of firangs, trying to buy Souvenirs from India, cheap jewelley, the cafe LEO, a place where u apparently get the world's best Crispy chicken! The small roadside shops are really colourful & even if its really humid in Mumbai @ this time of the yr, its not so bad to spend like 3 yrs on that street!!! Its something about the place that makes you wanna come back!!! Its a strange mixed pot of culture and kind of people out there....
You walk like 1 street behind this place, you land up near hotel Taj Mahal and the Gateway Of India! Thtz 1 place you shouldnt be on a Saturday evening!! Its like any busy stn of Mumbai! But the only difference is, this time the run is not cause 2 earn their bread, but 2 getout of that run!!!
Cheers to the spirit of the City that never stops running !!!
Its like such a stress buster this "Shopping" thingy!!! Seriously!! We left home at about 4, and reached the place @ 6, after traveling like more than 30 kms, to this not so small street called "Colaba" rite behind Gate Way of India, Mumbai! So it all started with searching clothes for her and ended with buying loads of junk jewllery! The "search for the best" attitude makes it all the more exciting! & yea for 1se you can decide what u think is the rite price!!!
But more than all this, the whole street is full of firangs, trying to buy Souvenirs from India, cheap jewelley, the cafe LEO, a place where u apparently get the world's best Crispy chicken! The small roadside shops are really colourful & even if its really humid in Mumbai @ this time of the yr, its not so bad to spend like 3 yrs on that street!!! Its something about the place that makes you wanna come back!!! Its a strange mixed pot of culture and kind of people out there....
You walk like 1 street behind this place, you land up near hotel Taj Mahal and the Gateway Of India! Thtz 1 place you shouldnt be on a Saturday evening!! Its like any busy stn of Mumbai! But the only difference is, this time the run is not cause 2 earn their bread, but 2 getout of that run!!!
Cheers to the spirit of the City that never stops running !!!
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