Sunday, September 28, 2008

Serendipity




Do you guys remember this old movie?? I just happen to c it tonight & the thought crossed my mind of how true is this really!! lemme give a lil gist of the movie for those who hvnt seen it, its about 2 strangers who meet accidently during christmas in a shopping mall in NY & the girl truely beleives in Fate/Destiny.... so they set 2 things for eachother 2 find, how they both finally meet n live happily ever after....




The word "Serendipity" means, happy accidents... Its a cute thought... but does it really exsist?? Do we all beleive that fate has its way to find things for us??? some say life is just a disaster personified!! WHich is true??? which would you beleive? Do u need to be crazy to be happy? or is there a 5 step process to happiness??

happy Thinkin....

8 comments:

All That Bytes said...

Forget 5 steps something or anything like that. I basically believe in living for the moment. The more we think abt future, the more we get tensed and worried. And ultimately whatever we think abt the future possibilities, actually never takes place. Just be happy in whatever is happening. Trust me.

Deya said...

bohot gyaan diya tune!!! I didnt 4get U SOLD DA GUITAR!!!!

All That Bytes said...

Oye meri maa, kya hua hai tujhe. Idhar bhi guitar ka mention. I am telling u i havent given up on it. It is just that I need time to do other things which i always wanted to excel in. I know guitar is ur jaan. But chill.

Anup said...

Those are nice questions with long answers. ;) what happens in your life is based on many things ( and I quote it often through my writings) but let happiness be unconditional and based on absolutely nothing. If you really want to cook happiness like 2 mins maggie noodles then look up to few like these.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gqantZJ6WwM

You will realize, you don't need a reason and you don't need 5 steps to be happy ;)

Deya said...

IS it really true?? Happiniess can be unconditional??? I dun really know about it... I must admit I was a gr8 beleiver in that... somehow 2day I cnt happen to beleive in it atall!! I mean I try in everyway possible to be happy, but deep down I am not happy.. n I know it... I am finding the reason, its floating sumwhere n yet I cnt catch it.. :(

So I dunno if its true... Sighssss

Anup said...

Don't try to catch it. As simple as that :). You are blessed in many ways. Think of what you have. Theres a famous quote in Bible, "A man is what he thinks." You could have been in slums and not in Patni for recruiting people ;). And after all God is a nice trainer. We are all His students. So the fact that your happiness is based on you don't have something, want something or something happening is lame. It's just the phase where He wants you to learn to walk on rope without any support. Just to make you strong enough for something worse coming ahead. Happiness is not smiling all the time as most of the people think but instead happiness is not to let yourself down at odd time. Easy to get a smile on face when things go right but it takes courage to wait with strong conviction if they don't.
And as I said before... if you really need a reason, then watch people who stand helpless by nature vis-a-vis you. Thank God and be happy :)

Deya said...

@ Anup:- Thought provoking... Must say, your a positive person urself, n like a good spring weather, your words bring a smile to my face,..... :)

Anup said...

:) blush!!!! guess I should stop my studies and start being a motivating Guru or something..